With the cost of child care rising faster than inflation, due in part to the industry being particularly hard-hit by the pandemic, some families may be struggling to come up with solutions.
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, there are 8-percent fewer child care workers than before the pandemic. For parents with young kids, that means added stress finding a good child care provider and a greater financial burden.
We’ve outlined some considerations for both couples and single parents when it comes to budgeting for child care costs, including some thoughts from real-life families who are making it work.
A tight budget can get squeezed even more when day care gets added into the mix. Before plunking down a lot of cash for a high-priced child care center consider these alternatives:
If you can save money this way, consider investing what you would have spent on a full-priced child care center.
“My retired husband is "grandpa daycare" for our 3-year-old granddaughter. In exchange for our watching her, her parents make monthly contributions to her college fund instead.”
- Carol S, greater Seattle
Luckily, there are some great tax breaks that can make child care costs less expensive. For instance, when paying for day care, use a dependent care flexible spending account (set up through your employer). It allows you to use pretax dollars to pay for qualified out-of-pocket dependent care expenses, potentially leading to significant cost savings.
…if you don’t have a flex spending option through your employer, think about using the child and dependent care credit. To qualify for the credit, your child care costs must be spent on care needed to let you work or seek work. Keep in mind there is a maximum deduction amount and that other rules apply.
When looking for care, consider the costs of preschool versus a nanny or nanny share, and the pros and cons of each. And remember that costs decline as your child ages; infant rooms are the priciest due to teacher-child ratios. Also, see if the price per child goes down if you have multiple children being cared for.
“I asked my daycare for a discount since I have 3 of them and we’ve been with them for 5 years.” - Ashley M., greater L.A.
Consider whether a more flexible job might lead to cost savings on child care. If you’re married with young children, can one of you work evenings so a parent is always home? If you’re a single parent, can you shift your hours to accommodate child care?
“We have had to juggle schedules to make amazing child care fit our budget. Last year we spent $1,500 a month instead of $1,800 a month but I had to pick her up at 4 pm instead of letting her stay till 6 pm.”
- Samantha I., greater New Jersey
When budgeting for child care, remember that sending your child to a preschool is just one possible expense. Summer day camps, before- and after-school programs and babysitters are all possible expenses that you should consider when calculating your yearly child care costs. If possible, try to budget for family time too.
“My child care is more than my mortgage. It prevents us from doing fun things and adventures with the kids.”
- Ashley M., greater L.A.
The average cost of child care per year varies from $5,300 to more than $17,000 depending on where you live and the type of care you choose, according to the U.S. Department of Labor. Making the numbers work can be tough, and for some it might not make sense to keep working.
“About half of my paycheck goes to my child's daycare, and that’s a full-time teacher salary.”
- Samantha I., greater New Jersey
If you love your job or are trying to build your career, then there’s more to consider than just your salary. But if one parent can stay at home with the kids, it might be an option worth talking about.